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i think that studying/talking about the effects that our genes and psychological development have on our sexual preferences is soooooo fascinating. just truly like, idk, cool!

It is 👍

For me, it’s been more of a psychological satisfaction to desire partners who are fat. I’ve always loved the way a hug from a fat partner is so much more comforting.

Yes, I am interested in that too; while it is understandable that certain specific preferences stem from particular life events, and others seem innate. Our brains appear naturally wired to appreciate certain kinks and specific fetishes, which often hold a primal significance or symbolic meaning for us one that is not always easy to grasp, either for ourselves or from an outside perspective.